How We Grow – Part 1

This is Part 1 of 2 about coordinating organized play for D&D Adventurers League.

Getting Rid of Bad Apples

Sifting the wheat from the chaff. Culling the herd. Not letting a bad apple spoil the barrel. There are different ways to say it, different ways to think about it. It’s the reason why we have a Code of Conduct. There are bad players out there. At my store, we learned quickly how bad players influence new players and how to act on and remove such negative influences promptly to ensure the overall health of our organized play program.

We expect a lot of turn-over in Encounters. It’s an informal event as organized play goes and people join and leave all the time, but as we monitored attendance and informally polled players about their play experiences my husband, who is a very good reader of people, would pick up a pattern every season or so. Brand new players seated at a certain table would not stay more than one or two weeks. We’d observe that table and find one player was disruptive or rude to the other players. Or we’d actually receive complaints if the player’s actions were especially obnoxious. This would make new players uncomfortable or disinterested. In some cases the new players would be the target of the rude player’s attention and that would only hastened the leaving process. We immediately began intercepting these problems and trying to deal with them.

I’ve seen the idea circulate that because this is public play everyone has a right to play, so we coordinators should do everything to find a workable compromise for every player that comes to our store.

Not true. Any compromise that allows a bad player to stay and a good player to leave is a bad compromise. Everyone has the right to have fun and if a player is not contributing towards that goal, they forfeit their right to be part of a fun event. Those of us running D&D Encounters are volunteers. We are donating our time to make this event awesome and we do not have to tolerate it.

It seems like common sense, but we’ve seen the questions on forums or answered them at panels. “How do I deal with X type of roleplaying?” where X is not a type of roleplaying at all, but some disguised flavor of disruptive behavior. No, there is no obligation to accept “Its what my character would do” as an excuse. In fact, its a red flag for malicious PvPing in most cases I’ve witnessed.

Another example is “What should I do about this player?” where the player mentioned has demonstrated continued bad behavior. Some gamers believe they should try to tolerate these people, to find some way to make them better, to try to “fix” them, or at the very least find a coping mechanism. Ain’t nobody got time for that!

D&D Adventurers League is not Roleplayer’s Rehab. Cut out the bad apple and focus on the present players and the new players. If one new player’s experience is ruined by a bad player, think about what you’ve really done for them: their first memory of their first D&D game will be the bitter memory of something uncomfortable, uninteresting, and/or unsatisfactory. Don’t facilitate that. Trim the rot and help the good grow!

Addressing Problem Players: Ask. Warn. Remove.

Ask them to stop first. Discuss the problem but stay firm. Remember that intentions are unverifiable and are almost completely irrelevant to the consequences. Anyone can lie to you about why they did it. It really isn’t about why but about the what and the fact is they did it, and the outcome was negative.

Warn them of removal second. Step one you could be open to discussion, but in Step two accept no negotiation. They have violated their social contract by breaking the rules a second time. Be polite but precise in your expectations. The behavior must stop or they will be excluded from the game.

Remove. Three strikes, you’re out. The player demonstrates they’re either incapable or unwilling to alter their behavior. Here’s your litmus test: would WotC approve of this behavior? Would they proudly put this behavior forward as an example of what D&D is to someone who has never played D&D? If the answer is “No”, hell if the answer is “maybe not”, consider cutting the bad player lose and dust off your hands without regret.

You can skip to any step as you deem appropriate based on the severity of the ill behavior. Don’t tolerate cheaters. Don’t tolerate threats or violent behavior. Don’t tolerate bad hygiene – soap is cheap. Most of all don’t tolerate bullies or creepers. Remove the player and suspend them from playing in your program. Suspend a bad player for an amount of time proportionate to the crime. Suspension times can be a week, a month, a season, or forever.

If cutting bad players seems to be a bad idea because it will decrease the number of players to an insufficient amount, consider this: how will you make room for new players if the seats are filled with bad players? Better still, bringing in a new player means bringing in someone with no bad habits, no misconception about how to play. Cultivating new players into Great Players is a lot easier without any bad influences around.

Part 2: Planting Seeds

I am a four year veteran of D&D Encounters, currently coordinating for a large gaming store in the Far West Region, along with my husband and a team of volunteers. Do you have a question about coordinating events or organized play in general? Ask in the comments or email me: she@theshedm.com

 

5 thoughts on “How We Grow – Part 1

  1. What store is this? This post seems pretty straightforward on the way things should be conducted… care to share where these rules you’ve put forth w/r/t suspending players are being enforced?

  2. Interesting. In our best managed groups, no one is volunteering time. DMs get paid (either in store credit or actual money) and the players pay to play each week. This is how the store can justify giving up table space to a game that generates limited revenue. IE: 4 magic players doing a sealed deck game at a table generate at least $60 for one hour of time. 7 dnd players, for five hours of time, generate … nothing once they have purchased a PHB … and many buy that online. So basically, if you dont charge a table fee, the players are… literally costing you money. If you are paying to play and getting paid to DM, you really are entitled to a positive experience being created by the DM. Which means, finding a way to engage everyone as a DM. But you can certainly refuse to accept someone’s business as a store owner thats your right.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s